"Gender incongruity is the mismatch between the genetic foundation and physical appearance, and the mental/psychological understanding of self."

If you cannot accept that this happens, regardless of the frequency, then the rest of this book is not for you. If you can at least be agnostic about it, read on.

We have been dealing with our gender incongruity all our lives, from our earliest memories. We didn’t wake up one morning and just decided to be, something different.

If you are a parent with a child that has expressed gender incongruity, you are probably trying to figure out where this is all coming from. I hope the following helps. If someone in your life has told you they are gender incongruent (or any of the above terms), and you don’t really understand what that means, I hope this gives you some insight.